Dear Myne, my boyfriend lives with me, he says he loves me but he does not call me during the day nor does he text me anything nice. He says that he is soooo busy with work but I recently discovered on his mail some dirty chats he's been having with some women telling them how much he misses them or want to go and have sex etc and this really hurt me.
I confronted him and never did he say he's sorry. We are still together he still doesn't call or text. When I tell him I want out of such relationship he says he wants to be with me. But he hides his phone from me as its got internet on...I don't trust him and don't know if this relationship is worth going on...please help.
I think it's time you got the courage to leave this guy. There's someone out there who will appreciate and love you better!!
ReplyDeleteThis man is just not really into you. Unless you want this heart break all the time, leave him now, it's early enough.
ReplyDeleteLeave HIM NOW
ReplyDeleteHe's just keeping you around until something better comes along. Guys are notorious for doing this, they don't want to be alone, but they know the woman they are currently with is just a stand-in for the real thing. That's why you see men all the time who can be with a woman for years and never marry her, and marry someone they met in just 3 weeks. If you are okay with the position of stand-in then you can stick with him, but if you want someone who is totally into you and who desires and cherishes you then you will have to move on.
ReplyDeleteIs either both of you are young and having fun with the relationship, if it;s serious then he's not the one for you.
ReplyDeletehoney, please pray for the strength to leave that man and move on! he does not deserve you and you know it deep down that you need to leave him even if he begs or cries. I mean it is written clearly in your post..
ReplyDeleteMy dear, that guy is just using you, dump his ugly ass before is too late. You deserve better and no woman should be treated like.
ReplyDeletepls permit to ask, WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU STILL WAITING FOR? KICK HIS ASS OUT!!!!!
ReplyDeleteDawn
Babe that guy is a sucker.leaves him and brace yourself for some one who is going to respect u
ReplyDeletelooooooool...sorry i just had to laugh. they way you put this is hilarious. girl you better dumb the lame nigga.
ReplyDeletelooooooool sorry o i meant dump.
ReplyDeletedude is using you for free sex. thanks for helping a fellow man out.
ReplyDeleteYour answer is in your mail really. Stand outside the box and imagine if u would want a friend to be in such a situation. Girl, you know your answer yourself.
ReplyDeletemove on dear coz the guy is just using you for free sex since he doesnt love u and he has not yet gotten someone permanent
ReplyDeleteHe's definitely using you for free accommodation, maybe those other women stay with their parents,and you're his only option for accommodation...tell him you can't live together anymore and see if he still claims to love you...
ReplyDeletehoney he is just using you as a spare or a goto girl. he's got you twisted. bet your cookin and cleaning, maybe some laundry,? you need to dump his ass NOW. that is a BOY not a man. dont sit by the phone or be at his beck and call. he's counting on it. let him come home to an empty house. better yet post it on facebook or whatever site you use. call his loser ass out in front of everyone. have some self esteem and do something good for your lufe and get him out of yourz! good luck
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