#RelationshipGoals and Other Popular Social-media inspired Relationship issues

Being in a relationship is such a wonderful phase one will go through at some point in one’s life. It is where the consciousness gets feed off from an unexplainable emotion that drives us to be a better person. Dating is such a universal idea this despite the vast difference in practice from different cultures around the world. Just like any of the great ideas of the ancient times, relationship or dating is an emancipation comparable to the renaissance that gave purpose to the thoughts of mankind.

6 Ideas to Take Care of Your Skin Problems

Getting the right skin treatment for your skin to make you look younger and bright is not something impracticable. Knowing your skin type and taking care of it accordingly will not only keep your face fresh but it will also restrict you from getting any rigorous skin malady.

Skin protection is not limited to pricey skin care products by high-end brands, but it is more about altering your habits in a healthier way to make your skin more attractive and secure from environmental detriments. Having good skin care routine and healthy lifestyle can help you to naturally adjourn your aging process and eliminate the risks of skin problems.

In this article, we will be talking about 6 easy ideas that can help you in keeping your skin glorious and well-protected.

Depression More Common in Daughters of Older Mothers - Study Reveals

Depression affects millions of people out there, particularly women. Scientists have already associated it with a wide range of factors that contribute to its development, but the new study could change the way we perceive depression and its causes. According to this study, depression is more common in daughter, but not in sons, of older mothers. Keep reading this article to find out why daughters of older mothers have increased risk of depression.

Small Ways You Can Save on Your Wedding

Felipe Fernandes

Weddings can cost a lot of money, and many couples spend as much on them as they would spend on a car or deposit for a home. But it isn't a requirement to spend as much as possible on your ceremony and reception. You can try to have a cheaper wedding, even if you only make small savings here and there. If you have a dream wedding in mind, there might be several places where you're not willing to compromise. But even with these hurdles, you can still find other areas where you can make savings. Try these places to save, without compromising on the venue, the dress or the guest list.

18 Dos and Don’ts When You’re 11 Weeks Pregnant

By Sophie Addison

Can you believe you’re in 11th week of your pregnancy now? As your baby constantly grows and your body adjusts to your pregnancy, you might experience series of symptoms. Throughout this article, you will learn what’s going on with your baby now, what symptoms are associated with 11th week of pregnancy, and you’ll also learn all dos and don’ts that will help you deal with them. Let’s start.  

The People's Choice 2016 Nominations Are In!

by Dana Smith 

Finally, the time is here. The people can now begin voting for their favorites for the People's Choice 2016 Awards. They were announced recently at the Paley Center for Media in Los Angeles. Over 72 million votes were cast to determine which of last year's favorites are still atop the heap and which ones have been replaced by someone fresher. 

To Die Once - An Inspirational Romance by Miranda Uyeh

Miranda A. Uyeh is an author, a book/entertainment blogger and editor of TBAP, a professional back cover copy writer, and a 2014 Inspy Award judge in the Contemporary and Suspense Romance Category. Miranda writes powerful and passionate fiction centered on romance. You can visit her on TBAP, twitter, facebook, google+, and pinterest. Check out more about the book below..

Di'Ja Engaged to Abuja Fiance In Beautiful Ceremony - Photos and Videos

Di'Ja, Mavin Records artist, and Sierra Leonean-Nigerian singer, whose real name is Hadiza Blell, had her engagement ceremony to her Abuja-based fiance a few days ago in Kaduna. It was a private ceremony with only family in attendance. Congrats to the couple ..

21 Things a Guy Should Avoid When Out On a Date With a Lady - Joro Olumofin

Joro Olumofin, social commentator and relationship enthusiast has never been one to shy away from talking to the men when it comes to dating issues. He recently listed some things he thinks a guy should not do or ask a lady when they are out on a date. See the 21 things to avoid below.

7 Tips To Relieve Back Pain During Pregnancy

By Sophie Addison

According to available statistic, most women suffer back pains at the period of pregnancy. Sometimes it is normal. It is vital to take care of yourself during this period. There is no pointy in putting yourself in misery for the nine months. There are ways you can prevent these pains and also reduce them. There are methods that most doctors recommend to pregnant women for use to ease the back pains to provide complete relieve. Learn these methods from the points below.

Avoiding Sports Related Injuries For Children In Winter

It’s that time of year again. The kids are back in school, and after-school activities are starting to pick up. Maintaining an active lifestyle full of fun and challenging physical activities is important for fitness and physical development and also aids learning and concentration in other disciplines as well. The teamwork, social skills, self-control, and practice that goes into organized sporting activities also translates into more focused and dedicated students in the classroom as well.

Great Ways to Spend Quality Time at Home With Your Spouse

Are date nights hard to come by in your home? As important as it is to spend time together as a couple, busy schedules, household responsibilities, and limited funds can sometimes get in the way. While these may be issues in your household, that doesn’t mean that you can’t get creative and find ways to spend time with your honey at home. There are plenty of things you could do right in the comfort of your own home that will make you two feel alive and in love once again. Below are a few entertainment options for couples looking to spend some much needed QT together.

6 Trauma-free Tips For Traveling With Children

Traveling with children doesn’t have to be a hassle: in fact, it can be a smooth-sailing adventure with the proper preparations. The experts have said that the most important thing to keep in mind when traveling is to pack light, leave extra room for hiccups and emergencies, and over prepare for any scenario. Here are six tips to make your next family travel adventure as fun as possible.

Mark Zuckerberg and Wife Welcome Daughter, Pledge to Donate 99% of Wealth to Charity

Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg and his wife Priscilla Chan welcomed their baby a few days ago and he has been sharing some posts on his page about how they plan to live as parents as part of a larger society. One of the things the couple plan to do is to donate 99% of Mark's Facebook shares to charity, not when they are old, or dead, but in their lifetime. The shares are currently worth about $45 billion, and the money from them will go to start their charitable corporation, an LLC, in the baby's honor. Read the note and watch the video below...

4 Smart Reasons Couples Are Getting Prenups Before They Say I Do

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Many people have an instinctively negative reaction when they hear the term “prenuptial agreement.” When prenups first became popular, they were typically viewed as a weapon by which rich spouses took advantage of less wealthy, less sophisticated partners. Making the headlines today, we often hear about celebrity scandals involving messy divorces and high-stake prenups. Questioning some of the negativity surrounding these legal contracts, I wanted to get more information.  

Top 3 Venues for the Perfect Wedding Reception in Abuja

By Nkem Ndem

Abuja, the Federal Capital Territory of Nigeria offers countless opportunities for a romantic happily ever after, and the city features hundreds of beautiful places to host a reception. With the profusion of event spaces to choose from, there is certainly a venue for every pair: culture connoisseurs, nature mongers and more. 

However, as is now the norm, most Nigerians prefer to keep it simple and elegant by hosting their receptions in decorated banquet halls and ballrooms located either within prestigious hotels or in event centers.

If you are one of those looking to tie the knot in Abuja anytime soon, below are the 3 most popular venues for the perfect wedding reception in the city.

How To Benefit From Taking Parenting Classes

By Zoha Ejaz

For all those parents who have newly born kids or even those who are seasoned parents of teenagers, parenting classes are a learning source for everyone. They are actually a source that gives them a detailed comprehension about your child and allows you to grasp more about the parenting disciplines and styles. According to Seattle childbirth educator Doula Penny Simkin, “The day your baby is born is one of the most significant days of your life. Prepare for it and take part in your care, so that you will look back on this day positively and proudly.” Of course parents want their child to develop with the best of their characteristics and no one in the world wants to feel that they have not given their best for their child’s development. This, when they feel, is basically done with their practical experiences as children of course do not come with a user manual.

The Five Hardest Conversations You Will Ever Have With Your Spouse

By Jenna Brown

The five hardest conversations you will ever have with your spouse? Well, I can think of about 20 of them. So, I wrote those 20 down on a scrap of paper and found out that many were duplicates.

So, let's just pick five doo-zees out of the bunch and see what happens with that.

5 Vitamin Rich Foods You Must Know For Healthy Brain

By Sophie Addison

I have some really good news tonight. You don’t need a brain transplant to boost your brain power at work or at school. Let that simmer… before it goes cold… According to neurologists, if you want to work smarter, you have to eat smarter. My secret neurologist is called Dr. David Perlmutter, he is an author of a best seller titled "Brain Maker: The Power of Gut Microbes To Heal and Protect Your Brain -- For Life,"

18 Alternative Date Ideas around the World - Infographic

We’ve all dreamed of that perfect romantic trip with our loved ones, but there’s no denying that some of the more renowned dating spots have recently become just a little bit cliché. It’s always important to keep things interesting in a relationship if you want to maintain that honeymoon feeling for as long as you can, so when it comes to travelling, why not mix it up a little?

For example, instead of spending a fortune to spend half an hour riding in a gondola in Venice, why not explore the real Venice through sampling the local wine and cuisine on an intimate Secret Wine Tour? The infographic below shows a list of some of the best, yet relatively unknown, dating spots around the world. Whether you enjoy being outdoors, love to try exciting new cuisines, or even prefer to do something more creative, this list is sure to have something to suit.

My Guy Crush Cannot Speak Good English

I'm 17 his 20 in college but he didn't come to America at an early age but when I first saw him I could stop smiling he was so nice and handsome definitely my type but then he started speaking English it was terrible it turned me off literally.

I feel like I love him but I'm scared of going any further with him because he doesn't speak English fluently plus his Caribbean and those guys are aggressive I had made a promise to never date them because of what my mother went through with them.

Dear Myne - My Nigerian Boyfriend Beat Me But Wants to Marry Me

I have been dating Nigerian man for more then a year.at first he treats me like a princess but slowly turn into most aggressive man I ever imagine..I am so confuse in this relation.it's been twice since he hit me terribly so this time am finding hard to forgive.he gets abusive for small issue and I doubt he is  not cheating me too though I never caught him but at same time he would behave like as if he loves me so much..really hard to understand them..moreover all his friends cheats their wife..I am trying to move on I doubt they are not good husband material

Maternity Dressing That Can Make You Look Chic

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Women who are fashion forward or those who love their style sense to the core freak out at the idea of wearing frumpy looking clothes when they get pregnant. Pregnancy is an exhilarating time of a woman’s life; the 9 months of endless cravings, morning sickness and mood swings can be both exhausting and exciting. While you’re dealing with all that, you’re also worried about a whole new wardrobe with clothes that fit and clothes that are equally comfortable because even the most harmless of seam can feel like a knife under your clothes, during this time. For all such mommies to be, there is a lot that can be done without having to drape yourself in grandma clothes or shabby pants. If you want to look chic even with that adorable bump of yours; here are a few style tips and ideas to spruce up your pregnancy.

10 Clever Ways to Clear Out Adult Acne

By Linda Daniels

Acne creates spots on the skin surface making it have a non-uniform complexion. This is caused by hormonal changes resulting from consumption of some foods and normal body processes such as menstruation. It also caused by the use of strong chemicals used for skin treatment and many other human causes such as dirt. When most people are teenagers, they are told that when they are over the teen age acne will eventually stop bothering them. However, this is not true because there are people who are over 25 years who still experience the same problem. Does this worry you so much? Now you should be smiling with a sigh of relieving because below are the wise ways of getting rid of adult acne:

Easy Lifestyle Changes In Order To Make Big Savings

In the words of one major supermarket ‘every little helps’. This is very true when it comes to making adjustments to daily, weekly and monthly spending. Sometimes these may seem like tiny amounts, but if you follow a policy of saving money across the board then every penny you can keep in your pocket can really add up.

Some of the savings you make are easy to implement and often require nothing more than changing a routine or taking a moment or two to think first.

How to Balance Your Metabolism By Eating Fruits Daily

By Sophie Addison

Health and physical appearance are a concern to many people all over the world. But most of these people do not adhere to the right eating habits, diets and physical exercises to obtain and maintain fit physical condition and health state. Eating the right diet that includes fruits daily enables one’s body to metabolise and burn fat more effectively and efficiently, and this helps one to get all day energy as the body burn calories. Metabolism helps in regulating the body weight. Therefore ensuring an efficient metabolism helps achieve and maintain the desired body weight. Fruits are rich in fibre that facilitates the body’s ability to burn fat through moving the macronutrients through the digestive system faster. 25 grams for women and 38 grams for men is the recommended fibre daily intake. Fruits form an important part of the diet to ensure the body performs at its optimum capacity by enabling a fast metabolism process.

Nollywood Actress Susan Peters Married to Dutch Fiance - See Wedding Photos!

Nollywood actress Susan Peters was married today to husband Koen, a Dutch national. The wedding took place at the Ikoyi registry today, and the traditional wedding and white wedding will take place later this year. It was a small event with just family members, and close Nollywood friends like Emem Isong, Hon. Desmond Elliot and Bola Aduwo in attendance. Congratulations to the happy couple! More photos below...

After the Wedding - How to Smooth Out the Moving in Together Process

By Jenna Brown

You made it! The vows have been exchanged, you paid the caterer and the photographer, you cut the cake and you’ve filed all of the proper paperwork. You’re officially married! Now what? If you already live together, your day to day life probably won’t look all that much different now that you’ve made things official. If you’re an old fashioned couple, however, you have one more step: moving in together.

Moving in together is one of those things that seems ridiculously simple...until you actually have to do it. Suddenly you’re merging two homes--filled with personal belongings, memories, etc. into a single dwelling. There are going to be some bumps in the road. Hopefully, though, if you follow our advice, you can keep the fighting to a minimum.  

How To Attract the Right Person On Social Media - Be Yourself!

By Nkem Akinsoto

Every day we hear of couples who get married after meeting each other online and on social media. Whether Facebook, Twitter, Instagram or simply private messaging forums and even blogs, all have registered several romances that end in marriage or some kind of long-term relationship.

A few days ago, news of the traditional wedding between two Nigerians who met on Twitter swept the blogosphere. Oyinkansola had replied a DM (direct message) sent by Olaoluwa and 3 years later, they are now husband and wife. Olaoluwa's DM to Oyinkansola was his first attempt at sending a DM and she was the first lady who replied him.

Shopping For Winter Coats - Waterproof Rating Vs. Breathability Rating?

When you shop for winter coats, you are probably going to encounter two different terms: waterproof rating and breathability rating.  Understanding what these terms mean can go a long way toward helping you choose a coat that can stand up to whatever winter in your neck of the woods throws at you. Below we explain these two rating systems and which one you need to consider for which types of winter coats you need.

Official Photos From WED Expo's MBNWedding Season 2 Lagos Winners

Noye and Emmanuel Ofulue, the Lagos winners of WED Expo‘s wedding competition, My Big Nigerian Wedding have tied the knot in style, and their wedding was one that would be remembered for a long long time.

The newlyweds entered for this contest along with hundreds of couples and after a rigorous round of voting and a grand finale, they emerged winners of the competition carting away a N15Million wedding and a honeymoon in Abu Dhabi. Enjoy the full official photos for the couple’s wedding below...

On Same-Sex Marriage - A Look at Children Raised In The LGBT Community

Often, questions are raised about the children who are raised in gay marriages during discussions about the recently passed decision of the US Supreme Court legalizing same-sex marriage across the country. So I was intrigued when I came across this infographic that attempts to answer some of these questions in a scientific manner. Check it our below...

One Month Before The Wedding? Here's Your Essential Checklist

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It seems like only a minute since he was down on one knee, offering you a diamond ring! The months fly by, and you’re only a few weeks away from the biggest day of your life. One month before the wedding is when the nerves start to kick in. It’s when the stress starts to build up, as everything must come together perfectly.

How To Start an Exercise Regime After Pregnancy

Being a parent is exhausting – more so if you’re new at it. The demands of your baby coupled with the changes in your body can put you under a lot of stress. It is important to take things easy after the birth of a child to avoid wearing yourself out.

The period after giving birth can be challenging mentally and physically for most mothers. You worked hard to give birth, putting a lot of strain on your body and it will take a while to get back to normal. You are likely to experience some pains and twinges as your body recovers and your emotions may be all over the place in the days following delivery. For this reason, you should be gentle with yourself.

8 Vital Dating Rules Every Woman Should Know

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We all know it - dating is anything but an easy game. If you want to get things right, you have to work at it. You can't just turn up to a date and hope for the best. Instead, you need to show the person what it means to you. That means that you need to make an effort. If you're about to go on a first date, you need some advice to help you along the way. Here are eight rules that every woman should know.

What We Can Learn About Parenting from Celebrities

By Jenna Brown

I’m not a big fan of celebrity role models. People who have a lot of money without much by way of normal, human responsibility tend to make a hash of the kind of life that ordinary people have to deal with. They make the kinds of decisions that only the extremely wealthy, and socially disconnected could possibly relate to.

But there is one area of their lives that is eminently relatable to just about anyone. That would be the parenting aspect of their persona. One of the reasons they are so relatable in this area is that almost no one is a particularly good parent. We all make the same mistakes that have been made by parents for the last million years. Celebrities are no different.

9 Signs You SERIOUSLY Need Marriage Counseling

By Sylvia Smith

What many people do not realize is that counseling can help prevent problems in a relationship.  Learning ways to build a relationship before there are problems is one reason some couples seek a counselor.  Unfortunately, many couples wait too long before they consider marriage counseling and do not care enough about their partner to continue with the marriage.  If you are even wondering if counseling might help, it is probably time to find a counselor.

Deciding when to seek marriage counseling can be a tough decision.  Check out the list below to see if you and your partner might need to see a professional for marriage tips.

How to Help a Loved One Suffering from Addiction

by Jenna Brown

The National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence (NCADD) estimates that 17.6 million people in the United States suffers from alcoholism or alcohol dependency, which is one in 12 people over the age of 12. Several million more people engage in risky drinking behavior. The NCADD reports that 20 million Americans have used an illegal drug in the past 30 days, and another 48 million are using prescription drugs for non-medical reasons.

5 Easy Ways To De-Stress Your Relationship

By Patrick Vernon

According to the American Psychological Association, the most frequently cited causes of stress are money (75 per cent), work (70 per cent), and the economy (67 per cent). However, while these aspects of life are often out of our control and the same can’t be said for the fourth most-common cause - relationships.

Apparently, 58 per cent of people believe that everyday dealings with their significant other is the reason behind stress and anxiety. So, if you feel the same way, what can you do to reduce the stress in your relationship and live a much more contented life? After all, with money on our minds we stand need emotional strife too…

Those Little Things - 3 Ways To Show Love To Your Partner

By Nkem Akinsoto

When you are in a relationship, whether married or yet to be, the easiest way to keep the love and romance alive is to keep looking for ways to make the other person happy. Even if you don't get it right all the time, the fact that you are making efforts to do so goes a long way to show that you care and appreciate your spouse or partner. And in my personal experience, I have found that often, it is those little things that are the most important when it comes to laying a foundation of love and sweet memories in your relationship.

How To Take Your Fitness To The Next Level In 4 Easy Steps

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By Christina

It doesn’t matter how fit you are; there is always room for improvement. So, whether you haven't broken a sweat for over a year, or work out three or four times a week, read on. This article will show you several ways of taking your fitness to the next level.

How to Choose The Perfect Engagement Ring - Step-by-step Guide For Men

By Sheryl Alfaro

After several relationships, you have finally found the perfect girl and you are ready to jump from boyfriend to fiancé. You asked her father for her hand in marriage and you plan to make the perfect proposal. The first step towards your dream wedding is buying the perfect engagement ring.

There is a lot of pressure in buying an engagement ring. This will serve as a symbol of your love for your partner. It also shows your willingness to spend the rest of your life with her. Furthermore, your girlfriend will most likely show off the ring to her friends and family. Now that’s a lot of pressure!

Well, buying an engagement ring does not have to be a stressful ordeal. With the right amount of knowledge, coupled with your excitement to take your relationship to the next level, buying an engagement ring can be a pleasant experience. Here are some important things to keep in mind in selecting the perfect engagement ring.

Commandments of Being a Bridesmaid – An Info-graphic

Getting asked to be a bridesmaid is very much an honor so it is a role that needs to be taken seriously no matter how many times you have been asked to do it! The wedding day is a monumental occasion in the bride’s life and she has asked you to be a special part of it.

Being a bridesmaid can also be fun as you get to be in the wedding party and be treated like a VIP for the day. You also get the opportunity to get to know new people – maybe you haven’t met the groomsmen before, or maybe you haven’t met your fellow bridesmaids either!

Stephanie Linus Campaigns To Stop Violence Against Women In Elections [Photos]

Nollywood actress, producer and director Stephanie Linus was yesterday announced as the Ambassador for the ‘Stop Violence Against Women In Elections’ Campaign. This project is funded by the USAID, and is an initiative of the NDI in partnership with the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA). Her formal presentation as an ambassador took place yesterday at the Transcorp Hilton Hotel, Abuja, photos below...

Stop-VAWIE (Violence Against Women In Elections) Campaign is a project that seeks to create public awareness on various forms of violence against women before, during and after elections in Nigeria, which often militates their active participation in the electoral process.

Is Unwanted Facial Hair Stopping You From Kissing Your Husband?

By Kevin Dicerbo

Many women deal with unwanted facial hair though they rarely talk about it. As women, facial hair is a problem no matter where it’s found but for some women in relationships, the most problematic is the fuzz on the upper lip or stubble on the chin. Those key parts of the face that come into play when you are kissing your partner and they want to touch or hold your face. 

Kissing is one of the most intimate acts a couple can share, and when it’s gone, so goes much of the intimacy in a relationship. But some women do let this important aspect of their relationship go slack in order to save themselves the embarrassment of a rough face.

The Home-Maker by Juliet Kego [Poetry]

My thoughts when I first read this poem by Juliet Kego (pictured above) was this is absolutely beautiful! The Home Maker by Juliet Kego is so touching and yet so strong. The poem, which Juliet calls Floetry, gives a voice to the woman at home toiling to make her home and feeling unsatisfied and underappreciated. The woman in the poem knows when she's had all she can carry, and what she needs to do in order to find herself. Enjoy the poem below...

Couple Love - Nicki Minaj Flaunts Curves On Date Night With Meek Mill - Photos

Nicki Minaj and boyfriend Meek Mill are still in love, and the sultry actress wants us to know it. Nicki shared these photo with the caption, "love this picture" on one of them. According to commenters, this is the first pic she will post of Meek on her page in over a week, and some people were already concluding they had broken up. Not so, it seems. More pictures below...

Family Time - Pregnant Mercy Johnson-Okojie Celebrates 31st Birthday With Husband & Kids

Mercy Johnson-Okojie celebrated her 31st birthday a few days ago at her Lagos home, and it was just quality time for some pictures with her cute family. The award winning Nollywood actress and her hubby Prince Okojie are expecting their third child, and they look really happy in the pictures. Congrats to them! See more photos below...

Tonto Dike & Mr Churchill Hold Traditional Wedding In Port Harcourt [Official Photos]

The traditional marriage between Tonto Dikeh and Mr Churchhill took place today at her hometown Rumukani in Rumukwuta in Obiokpor LGA Rivers state. Most of the couple's friends and family attended including a few of the actress's nollywood colleagues. Congrats to the new couple and wishing them all the best of a married life! See more photos below...

South African Performers Visit US To Raise Funds For Community Development

Above is a group of women flying into the Chicago area from South Africa. These women are part of a non-profit organization called SAFCO, (Service Association For Community Organizations). They perform Cultural dances and have been to many countries in the world.  They have won many Global and National Awards, including Africa Achievers Award 2015, at the World Leaders Forum, Dubai.

I am showcasing them here so those interested can invite these talented South African SAFCO women to perform. They can perform, during their stay here in the United States (around 2 months plus or minus), as part of the fundraising efforts for their cause. Profits from their performances go towards housing orphans and underprivileged in Africa, and fulfilling the mission of the organization which include: