Stand For What You Believe In - Ese Walters Shares Her Evidence In Hopes of An Investigation

Following the conversation spurred by the revelation of Ese Walter's affair with Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA (see here) she has written what she says is her last article on the topic titled “Going Forward”. Ese thanks all those who supported her and says that her evidence is with a respected minister in the hopes that the Christian body in Nigeria will investigate Pastor Biodun to prevent further abuses.

#illNeverDateAPersonWho - What Is Your Number One Relationship Deal Breaker?

Love me, love my dog? Many of us know what we want in those we date, and when those things are missing, we'll either run far away from the potential suitor or relegate them to the friendzone like in the picture. Those on twitter decided to weigh in on the issue and there are many gems. Cheating is high on the list, breaking promises, sharing the same likes and dislikes, looks, etc. What is yours?

Uche Nnaji and Anthonia Onwamaka - First Photos From Traditional Wedding

Uche Nnaji, CEO of Ouch got married earlier today to his fiancee, Anthonia Onwamaka, at the bride's home in Lagos. Their white wedding will be celebrated next month. Best wishes to the couple. More pictures below...

Grieving Husband, 96, Writes Song for His Late Wife - They Were Together 75 Years

If you don't like crying or have no heart for love or romance, this video and story may not be for you. The video is a short documentary about Fred Stoubaugh, 96, who lost his wife Lorraine earlier this year. They had been married just short of 73 years, but had been together for 75 years - dated two years before marriage.

Pastor Anselm Madubuko Marries Emmy Kosgei - Traditional Wedding Pictures

Pastor of Revival Assembly Church, Anselm Madubuko lost his first wife, Connie Madubuko, July last year, and decided earlier this year to get married again to Kenyan gospel artist Emmy Kosgei. The couple's traditional wedding took place in Kenya some days ago. RML wishes the couple a happy married life.

Vacation Time - Toni Payne and Son Zion in Dubai

Toni Payne shared some pictures of her vacation with Zion, her son with Nigerian musician, 9ice. Mother and son checked out the unique attractions of Dubai, the sands of the desert as well as the man-made water park, Atlantis.

Kate Middleton at First Post-Baby Event With Prince William

Kate Middleton attended an official event with her husband Prince William on Friday. Though she had earlier been photographed shopping, Kate and William were royal reps at the Ring O'Fire Ultra Marathon in Anglesey, Wales, where they're currently spending some time.

Between Ese Walter and Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo - Schadenfreude and Fair Opinion

By Philip AMIOLA.

I have taken a break from mass media for a while to take care of some personal projects. However, I have been so harangued by the sex scandal involving Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo and Ese Walter that I think I should offer a word or two on it. Reading Ese Walter’s account on her personal blog, I couldn’t help but admire the courage with which she is learning to live her authentic life. However, it is quite unfortunate that many people have had their minds so beclouded with anger, jealousy or some other strong emotions that they have completely missed the point.

Bargain Hunting - World Remit Offers 15% on Mobile Phone Top-Ups

World Remit is offering all their customers a 15% discount on recharge / load / top-ups of airtime on mobile phones from NOW until midnight on Sunday 1 September 2013. Simply use promo code TOPUP15 to get 15% off any topup / recharge / loads to all countries. Ends Sunday 1 September 2013 at midnight GMT (Greenwich Mean Time).

Pastor J of God's House Abuja Confronts Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA and his Supporters

For the leaders of this people cause them to err; and they that are led of them are destroyed.”
Isaiah 9:16 
“Let them alone: they be leaders of the blind. And if the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch.”
Matt 15:14 

I was going to be silent on this sad, pathetic but true (in many shades) allegation against Pastor B and his popular and trendy ministry. My silence was borne out of respect for the kingdom of God and things that pertain to God. But all this changed when I heard the horrific tales of people who had been through the mess of this blind man, and the fact that he had no moral motivation to deny or accept the allegation; all he showed on Sunday was a demented swagger and perverse talk. [see post]

Veronica Ebie Odeka Writes A Letter to Hubby on their 5 Years Wedding Anniversary

Veronica Ebie-Odeka is the fashion stylist behind Vane Style in Nigeria. For her 5th year wedding anniversary to Olufemi Odeka, she decided to write him a letter on Instagram with these throwback pictures. She wrote "5 years ago we made a promise . Through ups and downs. Good and bad. Fights and makeups were still together and I thank God. Happy anniversary to US." RML wishes the couple many more years!

Daddy Time - Tuface and his Daughter, Isabel

Tuface spending time with Isabel, his daughter with Annie Idibia. When it comes to wrestling with the kids, daddy always loses. Don't you just love the faces they're making? LOL...

What Do You Think of White Gowns For the Bridesmaids Too?

When preparing to attend the wedding as a guest, one of the general rules one bears in mind is to stay away from white dresses, unless it is specifically asked by the bride and groom. Tina Turner, being an inconventional bride [see pictures] asked all her female guests to wear white.

Leaving It To God? An Easy Escape For The Pastors, Con-men and Rapists in Nigeria

By Okechukwu Ofili

So unless you have been living under a rock, you must have heard about the Ese Walter story. If not, google Ese Walter. Now back to the story…


Ese Walter on Thursday of last week alleged that she had an intimate 1 week affair with her Pastor…Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA. The whole world (including third world and first world citizens) waited eagerly for the pastor’s response and they were not disappointed. At least if you are a Nigerian, you were not. It was the classic leave it to God response, embellished with occasional screams from an adoring congregation as the pastor made empty statements like:

If Twerking is Egwu-Ukwu Reloaded, What Do You Think of the Oxford Dictionary Definition?

I got introduced to the word twerking just a few days before Miley Cyrus blew up the internet with her version of the dance at the MTV video music awards [see here]. Someone send me a video of a compilation of various people twerking and said, is that not Egwu-Ukwu (translate - Dance of the hips)?

Would You Use Sex as a Bargaining Chip?

By Eky Shirley

Is SEX a Bargaining Chip????

Every couple, even those with marriages or relationships made in heaven, have their moments of disagreement. Sometimes, it could get really messy. Some people have been known to turn their backs to 'hubby' or 'wifey' when they reached out for them after 'lights out'; because they were upset. Some have been known to hold out on having sex with their mates, till they get what they want, have their requests met, etc.

Magazine Covers - Yvonne Okoro on Glitz

Ghanaian actress, Yvonne Okoro is fronting the latest edition of Glitz Africa Magazine, The Cool Issue.

Ella Bethel Puts Ankara and Lace Front and Center in New Collection

Ella Bethel is an upcoming designer, and in the August edition of Zen magazine, she showcases her new collection “Aperçu”. Ankara and Lace take center stage styled into skirts, jewellery and headscarves. Lovely!

Photos - Stephanie Linus Throws Surprise Birthday Party For Husband Linus Idahosa

Stephanie Linus threw a surprise party for her husband Linus Idahosa whose birthday was last Sunday aboard a yacht in Lagos. The guest list included Uche Jombo, Kate Henshaw and Emem Isong and Frank Edoho.

The Secret is Out For Olivia Pope In Season 3 of Scandal - Oct 3

In the newly released poster, Kerry Washington as Olivia Pope is looking down in profile, with the caption, "The secret is out." I'm sure we all know the secret they're talking about - that Olivia Pope is President Fitz's  mistress was revealed in the last minutes of Season 2. Personally, I also want to know more about her father, and why she loves Fitz so much she can't let go. Fitz is a married man you'all :)


Read More - 14 Things to Know About Season 3 of Scandal Coming October 3

Mommy Time - Titi Oyinsan and The Twins Hangout With Pregnant Kaffy

When you have twins, like Titi Oyinsan, the best mommy times are when you can find an extra pair of hands or more to help you hold the babies. There were several willing hands at the Project Fame Studios when Titi went over there with her twins for a meeting. From dancer Kaffy, to Benneth Ogbeiwi to the twin's grandfather, all were happy to carry Amber and Ruby.

Barack Obama and Michelle at the Martin Luther King March on Washington Commemoration

Yesterday, America remembered one of the iconic figures and moments of the fight for justice and equality in the country. 50 years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King (Jnr) delivered his rousing I have a Dream speech on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial in Washington DC in front of a crowd of hundreds of thousands who had marched to Washington to demand their civil rights.

Biola Alabi Wins Businesswoman of the Year at the CNBC All Africa Business Leaders Awards

Biola Alabi of M-Net leads the list of winners announced last night, 28 August 2013 for the West African round of the Johnnie Walker Blue Label CNBC Africa All Africa Business Leaders Awards (AABLA) held at the Intercontinental Hotel in Lagos, Nigeria.

You Didn't Tell Me Marriage Would Be Like This - Part 1

There are very few times in life when someone will say to another person “Ah… ah, you didn’t tell me!” with a real look of semi-betrayal and wonder at the fact that they were left to figure this out themselves.

Unconditional Love - Kelly and Jesse Cottle, a Wife and Her Double Amputee Husband

This real life couple, Jesse Cottle, a retired US Marine, and his wife Kelly Cottle show us again another facet of unconditional love and how much it happens more than we know.

In July 2009, Jesse Cottle stepped on an IED during his tour in southern Afghanistan, which followed two earlier stints in Iraq after he joined the Marines in 2003. Jesse Cottle’s job had him hunting for and detonating explosives. After countless missions, this particularly powerful blast cost him both of his legs.

Magazine Covers - Mercy Aigbe on House of Maliq

There's just something captivating about when someone is laughing so openly and fully, it definitely looks great on Actress, Mercy Aigbe. She covers the latest issue of House of Maliq magazine. See more pictures below.

Quote of the Day - Find Your Love With Your Heart Not Your Eyes

This is beautiful, a love that goes beyond the physical.

Catherine Zeta-Jones and Michael Douglas Taking Time Apart - Can Separation Heal a Marriage?

Catherine Zeta-Jones and Michael Douglas have been married for almost 13 years, and today, they announced they are taking time apart to “evaluate and work on” their marriage. Reports say  the couple have not filed for a divorce or legal separation, for now.

Michelle Obama Debuts New Ombre and Longer Hairstyle

Michelle Obama had quickly switched from the fringe which she wore at the beginning of the year to her more usual side parting by Mother's Day in May. By the summer, her hair had become shoulder length as was shown on her cover of the Parade Magazine. For her latest hair cut, the FLOTUS has added golden highlights to the ends. Nice...

Mercy Johnson Okojie Reminds us of Disadvantaged Children on her Birthday

Mercy Johnson has said that since she became a mother, the plight of children has come forefront to how she wants to give back to the society. And especially children who are less privileged and who have less opportunities in terms of family and support, most of these children live on the streets or in reform homes in various cities.

Vacation Time - Omoni Oboli and Husband Take The Kids to Disney's Hollywood Studios

Actress Omoni Oboli and her husband are currently in the United States along with their three sons on their summer vacation. The family are taking time out to visit the Hollywood studios of the Disney corporation in LA.

Omotola's Cover Story For Stella Magazine Comes Online After They're Called Out

@Realomosexy was profiled in the UK Telegraph and actually landed on the front page of their pull out, @StellaMagazine. However, not the paper nor the magazine bothered to put the actress's feature online, and Stella did not post the cover on any of their social media pages.

Katherine Obiang - On Her Abusive Marriage to Frank Edoho and Life After Separation

Katherine Obiang, was married to Who Wants To Be A Millionaire’s host Frank Edoho for seven years and they had three children together. The couple separated in 2011 after accusations by Katherine that Frank was physically abusive. Katherine has since then been working with Project Alert as a voice for women who are victims of domestic violence.

Imo State Signs Abortion into Law and More Women's Reproductive Rights

Yay! Imo State governor, Chief Rochas Okorocha, has just signed into law a bill which, among other things, permits women to procure an abortion when they need it. The bill was sponsored by the Majority Leader and Imo state house member representing Ahiazu Mbaise state constituency, Mrs. Ihuoma Adekunle, the law is to be cited as “Imo State of Nigeria, Violence Against Persons (Prohibition) Law Number 12 of 2012”.

Katung Aduwak Weds Raven Taylor - Photos and Video

This past weekend, Katung Aduwak and his fiancee now wife, Raven Taylor, celebrated their marriage in an intimate ceremony with family and friends. The couple had shared their pre-wedding photoshoot earlier this month, see here. RML wishes them the best of marriage. See more photos and video below;

Family Time - Will Smith, Jayden and Willow at the Video Music Awards

Will Smith and Jada Pinkett spend a lot of time with their son, Jayden, and daughter, Willow, which extends to supporting them in their music and acting careers and taking them to events and on the red carpet. Will Smith was with the children at the VMAs over the weekend and a picture of them above went viral.

@StellaMagazine - Omotola Deserves a Better Title for her Cover Story

According to this Stella title, they believe @realomosexy is a complete unknown to their readers. And it seems, not only have they never heard of Omotola, Stella doesn't believe they'll care to hear more. That's probably why I couldn't find the original cover or the story uploaded by magazine online. And I find that appalling.

Ngozi Nwosu Celebrates Birthday and Good Health With Friends and Family

Earlier this year, Ngozi Nwosu was diagnosed with a kidney and heart ailment had to travel to the UK for treatment. The actress is much better now and to celebrate, she decided to dance and have fun with friends and family. May her good health be permanent.

#BBATheChase - Melvin Oduah and Beverly Osu Return to Nigeria

Though both Melvin Oduah and Beverly Osu, the two Nigerian representatives at the Big Brother Africa game, did not win the top prize, they were warmly received at the airport as they returned from South Africa. Congrats to both of them for making it to the end. I'm still Team Melvin, and I wish him the much success in his chosen endeavors.

After Baby - Kate Middleton Gets Back to Daily Life, Grocery Shopping

Just over a month after Kate Middleton, the Duchess of Cambridge had her son, she's back to her day-to day activities. Kate was reportedly spotted for the first time since having Prince George out to the grocery store to stock up. What's that they say, the work of a woman is never done :)

A Public Proposal Ends in Disaster As Girlfriend Hits The Guy

How would you feel after a pubic proposal gone wrong? This Indian guy who decided to publicly propose to his girlfriend in a Dubai mall got a response he couldn't have expected. In this video going around, he had musicians, a microphone and a sugary sweet poem, as well as a willing audience, but the lady was having none of it.

How To Take Care of the Vagina 2 - Keeping it Tight and Smelling Good

I have shared the top 10 list of how to take care of your vagina, how to tighten it and keep away the bad smell. See post See top 10 list here. I also talked about Vaginal Yeast Infection and Best Herbal Cure For Candida To Reduce Vaginal Itching. Read post to stop itching here. I also found the following videos on Youtube that I liked and felt some of you might enjoy.

Dear Myne - My Christian Boss is Sexually Harassing Me, What Shall I Do?

Am also a victim of this, but I've got no pastor, friend, sister, brother, nor fother to confide in. My mum kept silent when i complained to her about her pastor's sexual advances and abuse. As a single mum its hard raising my child alone. I've got a job as a back up singer in a christian oriented music studio but am been threatened with sexual advances by the boss who is married and happens to be an elite figure of Christianity held in high regard.

Is Your New Relationship Worth The Effort To Keep Going?

By Stephanie Manley

New relationships are always exciting. They are full of new possibilities, they aren't the old relationships, and they are full of untapped potential. All relationship starts aren't smooth. So when do you decide to throw in the towel? I currently have a friend who is starting to date, and I find myself giving her the same advice that she was giving me when I was dating, and I began to think, when do you throw in the towel on someone new?

Quote of the Day - Your Heart Knows

Sisi Yemmie Vlogs - Stop Comparing, The Grass is Only Green Where It's Watered

"Look at you, look at you, is it not your mates that propose with range rover, and you're giving me ordinary picanto for my birthday, booo..." That is Sisi Yemmie for you o, I was laughing for most of this video but there are so many cool points. Life is so much hapier when you water your own garden and stop peeping over the fence every chance you get.

How To Tighten the Vagina and Keep Away Any Bad Smells

Have you ever wondered once or twice or more, how tight your vagina was, or whether your vagina has a bad smell? If you're married or sexually active, you probably want to know how to take better care of your vagina. It will definitely be on your mind when you want to do the do or it's time for your partner to go 'down'.  I also talked about Vaginal Yeast Infection and Best Herbal Cure For Candida To Reduce Vaginal Itching. Read post to stop itching here. Also read the 15 Facts to know about the penis here.

Miley Cyrus Twerking on Robin Thicke at the VMAs - How Would You Feel If You Were The Wife?

Miley Cyrus performed at the 2013 MTV Video Music Awards yesterday, and her performance involved lots of twerking. No problem about that, right? Well, after her single, she stripped to a nude latex two-piece and sang "Blurred Lines" with Robin Thicke. Miley went ahead to grab her singing partner's groin more than once, as well as grinding on him among other 18+ dance moves.

Titi Oyinsan on Balancing Work With Marriage, Twin Pregnancy and Being a First Time Mom

Titi Oyinsan is a radio presenter, who began media work as a model and TV presenter. She got married last year and had twin daughters [see pictures] earlier this year. In an interview with BellaNaija, she shares her love story with husband, Gbemi Oyinsan, managing a business with him, her experience of twin pregnancy, how she copes with motherhood, marriage and going back to work. Below is an excerpt of the interview...

Dear Myne - I Made Out With a Friend, Should I Tell My Fiance About It?

I made a stupid error. My story is a bit complicated, but will try to make it plain. we was introduced online and gradually we became very close and now in a long distance relationship. During the past 1 year of the relationship, I have been faithful, avoided guys and stayed loyal to him.