Love, Sex and Money - The Three Things Women Want the Most From Their Men

By Eniola Lawal

Someone made a list of what women want most, and she mentioned love, sex and money among other things. I sat down to ask myself how love, sex and money affects my life, our lives, an average woman's life. A woman shouldn't be damned for expecting money from her man, as far as we expect to be loved by our men, and who says we don't crave for sex? Of course we do!

This is either a question of a woman's loyalty to her fellow woman or a man loyalty to himself. Some women like to hide the truth, some just like to talk, and some men likes to worsen their own situation, so they go ahead to complain about how other women likes sex so much and how they like money. Who doesn't? Married or single, we all need to be loved, married or single when sex is involved it is really involved, we want it and then we have it, and when we talk about money, we talk about necessities, we talk about capabilities and we talk about comfort.

In every ideal relationship between a man and woman, there is something that bring the parties together, which most times is quite inexplicable apart from the scenario they met. Then, the man gives his woman attention, listens to her without judging her, communicates with her, takes his time to know every bit of her, watches his mouth while talking to her just because he doesn't want to put her off and one way or the other proves his own reliability. Now let's ask the men, why do they do all these things, to keep us? why? Because they darn loves us! That's why they would keep us and do anything to that effect. LOVE...even without requesting for it, we have it!

When two adults are involved, building a relationship and hoping to take it farther, it will survive with or without sex, and when a conclusion is reached, then it is. We also shouldn't over-look the fact that sex can be a perceptible way of expressing love to one's partner. As a woman, when you feel like making love with your man, it is normal and natural to ask, even without saying you can make move first! It doesn't mean you're an addict or you're cheap.You either choose to or not to, and when you decide on either you had better put yourself together and fulfill your end of the bargain...SEX...our decision and it should be respected, when we want it, we do!

When money is listed as fundamental as to what a woman is expecting from her man, it doesn't mean she isn't hardworking, self made or cant afford to buy her own Louboutins. The last time I checked, every woman is high maintenance, and as such can afford to maintain themselves. First of all, the need to be a comfortable man financially is very necessary, and when a woman checks that out, it is no big deal. Even the men can't complain, when he really wants to propose with a diamond ring, and he's pretty sure honeymoons are most preferable offshore, without saying, they make it happen. Diamond rings and flight tickets are not FREE...that is where MONEY comes in!

We want to be LOVED by our men, we love to have SEX with our men and we love to have FUN with our men!

P.S= FUN doesn't come handy, that explains it all.



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Eniola Lawal - I'm an ambitious young lady, a shameless lover, dream chaser, irresistible talker, everybody's friend and that girl ya'all looking out for.