Oprah or the Handbag Sales Woman - Who Decides What is Racism?

#solidarityisforwhitewomen is currently trending on Twitter. I have no idea if the hashtag has anything to do with the Oprah case but it sure got me thinking. Who decides what racism is? Is it the person claiming to have been discriminated aganst, or the person accused of being racist?

A Glimpse into the Life of a Naija Military Wife @msetipenny

Our featured couple will prefer to be known by their instagram handles. @msetipenny first met @buffalo__soulja who is a naval officer on Twitter and then brought their romance offline 6 months later. They got married earlier this year and today RML gets you a glimpse into the married life of a beautiful wife and young Nigerian man in the military. We spoke to @msetipenny, enjoy...

Dear Myne - Why Do I Always Attract The Wrong Sort of Men?

Dear Myne, I am sorry, I just have to pour this out. I tried taking my life and the very young guy who generally helps people around the street, saw me and even with my eye half closed (I thought I was dying) the guy still said I should borrow him 2000..  I just woke up so apparently this combination does not work.

Funny Video - Julius Agwu in Mission Impossible

Mission Impossible is a comedy skit by Julius Agwu and  features appearances by Funny Bone and Senator, also comedians. With a title like Mission Impossible, the video could be funnier, but the saving grace turned out to be the reactions of the would-be thieves when they entered the stolen car.

Magazine Covers - Most Beautiful Girl In Nigeria Anna Banner on Red Sheet

Last month, Anna Ebiere Banner came out tops at the Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria pageant. She is 18 years old but looks quite self-possessed on the cover. She wants "to be a beauty queen that young girls can look up to" and I wish her the best.

Abia Rape Update - The Victim and Her Unborn Baby Contracted HIV

And the rapists are now walking free. OK, let's start from the beginning. So we already knew that the so-called ABSU rape did not really happen in Abia, [see post] and also that some of the culprits were arrested back in 2011. However, what was never revealed was the details around the case, who the victim was and how she was dealing with the ordeal.

Funny Picture - Nigerian Moms Be Like...

Those on social media, especially instagram will possibly get the hashtag and the meme. This picture is so funny, whether it's posed or candid, the look on the older woman's face is classic.

Moses Obi Adigwe Out With Three Singles - “Love In The Air”, “Number One” and “Love Letter”.

Don't you just love those dimples? Moses Obi-Adigwe is the 22 year-old winner of Nigerian Idol 2013, and he has just debuted three new singles, “Love In The Air”, “Number One” and “Love Letter” featuring Eva Alordiah. Moses is from Delta State and is first ever male winner of Nigerian Idol.

Managing Money in Marriage - A Must Read For Nigerian Husbands and Wives

It is agreed by most people who counsel on marriages that one of the biggest causes of misunderstandings and quarels between husbands and wives is the issue of money. Do they make enough, and beyond that, how is the money they earn managed both for personal purposes and for the home?

Nollywood Movie Review - The Meeting

We've seen several movies since our last review, but somehow I've not been moved to do a review until watching Rita Dominic's The Meeting. I am a writer and for me, a good movie starts from the story. The Meeting has the best story and script/screenplay I've seen in Nollywood for a long time, and is certainly the best romantic comedy. Ever. Yes, even compared to Keeping Faith and Letters to a Stranger for older Nollywood lovers like me.