Hello Myne, I don't mean to stir the nest, but can someone here tell me if oral sex (and all that stuff) is permissible in a good Christian marriage? I am in the process of getting married and this question has begun to nag seriously on my mind because I like to do wild things in the bedroom. I know because I am not a virgin, although I am now back in God's will and have been for a while. I can't ask this question in Church because I am not sure how it would be received. Very eager to hear what everyone here thinks of this and thanks in advance to everyone who'll give their opinion.
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We have discussed Nigerian men and oral sex here, and what I think the bible says about it here. But what about other wild things, like vibrators, kegel balls, cock rings, edible panties, flavored condoms, even bondage. Should I add anal and whips to the list? Too 50 Shades of Grey? OK, I agree, but what is permissible for good Christian marriages? Let's discuss.
well my dear wen it come satisfying ur desire, if experiencing wild things gives u dat,den go for it.talk it over with ur partner.As for a 'A good xtian marriage'practising wild things is just a tip on d ice bag dat get d marriage going and with God divine blessings.So Sis ve fun.
ReplyDeleteSome wild things can be dangerous to your health so and those will be sins, so is dehumanization of the temple of God and self-inflicted pain in the search of canal pleasure is occult. I am not talking as a Christian, but for those who claim to be Christians, they should understand the logic of the scripture since everything is not black and white (common sense plays a role in Christianity). There isn't anything as half salvation.
ReplyDeletePlease, when it is wild, it is dangerous in every sense of the act and out of a Christian marriage. You can share better things between yourselves that would make your sex life great.
ReplyDeleteAs much I don't like commenting on Posts. I cannot but ask you these few questions. Hopeful this may throw more light to your question. Sex is a good thing that ordained between a man and woman. Even though there is nothing like bad sex in the bible but Sex positioning can be bad in itself-like oral sex and stuffs like that.
ReplyDeleteI have to ask you what is the motive behind this your "Wild things?"....if your motive is satisfied your flesh then not your spirit-man then...it has no other name than "Carnality"
Secondly, like you said that you are not a virgin. I want to ask you where did you see or had this knowledge of Oral Sex? In Pornography movies, Hollywood movies, is it in those times that you've not known Christ that you were in involved in such act or where? If you, at one time been engaging in one of the aforementioned before you came to Christ...then I must say you will need to do away with them.
In fact you will need to deal with such foundation in your life if at all you will want to go far in your Christian’s work. Such foundation does not only affect you alone, it cut across to your children and children’s children. Except you just want to gloss over it like it doesn't matter whereas it matters a lot.
Moreover, this act cannot only bring back the past sinful ways of living but it has the ability to Crash your marriage and break your home.
To be frank, God has orders in sexuality; He is so much interested on how we meet when it comes to having sex with our spouses.
I don’t want to give you a conclusive message here, but I will like to refer you back to God… Go and seek God for this answer, don’t allow your fleshy desires override your spirituality.
I’m very sure if, you will be sincere with yourself and with God, the answers are not that far fetched. In all that we do, we must glorify Him not our desires or emotions. Shalom
What is wrong with you?
DeleteNothing really..just voicing my opinion....You may not like it but that doesn't mean that something is wrong with me.
DeleteGreatness for Life, I think you must be an unhappy hypocrite. You have made no point and you show no empathy whatsoever for this conversation. It's people like you who use religion as a weapon to spread unnecessary guilt. What is even worse, it's not even your own religion, but the religion that was imposed upon you by an outsider. Get real. Wake up.
DeleteThanks for the complement... Much appreciated..and by the way, i don't buy into religion... Maybe I'm just an Old-School and I love to remain like that till I see my Saviour.
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To answer the question. There is no biblical stipulation on ANY sex act given in the Bible for a husband and wife to participate in..None! The rule of thumb is, as long as both parties are completely in agreement and nobody is being hurt then both of you can do any bloody thing you deem fit for yourselves.
ReplyDeleteAnybody who comes and tell that God has ordained specific sex acts or positions for married couples is lying. No specifics were addressed in the Bible, and likely because most of the books of the Bible were written by unmarried men who would not know about sex in marriage to begin with. The writers who were married had so many wives and concubines that they were likely too tired after having so much sex to think to write about it. Although King Solomon did do some sensual writing that some interpreters believe is an ode to his lusty ways, and others think is an ode to his love for God..who really knows.
Thank you for this!
DeleteSo if you thrust a pestle into your wife because she is enjoying it, it will be fine with God? That wont be my God, yours maybe.
DeleteI agree with the last anon.
ReplyDeleteSome people have lost their lives trying "wild things". Someone has a fish inserted into herself, while trying "wild things", drop religion, some "wild things" are so wrong and indulging in it because of temporary ecstasy is wrong and hence will be a sin. Sex drive is like intoxication, and you can go off limit, so I think reflecting on spirituality may help. And there is no scriptural manuals for sex, but there is common sense.
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most wild things are wrong! she mention anal sex, which is a sin in bible. it is called sodomy, cos dat was d way of d ppl of sodom. God created every tin in ur body for specific purposes, he created virgina for sex and reproduction, anus for passin out waste, so i wonder y ppl will leave d designated place and derived pleasure inserting penis into a place meant for waste.
ReplyDeleteI won't tell a husband and wife what to do with their bodies because I prefer to leave others to their otherness. Also, sex is a personal thing. What pleases one won't please the other. Over here, we'll advice you based on how we feel. So go ahead and do what feels. If you don't have peace about it, don't do it.
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