How to Spice up Your Sex Life

We’ll be blunt: are you having boring sex? If you are, just know that it doesn’t have to last forever. If you find yourself in a rut with a partner (or partners) or you’re just in a bit of a dry or lackluster spell during your single days, then there’s hope for you yet.

The good news is that you don’t have to have a partner in order to feel more sexually liberated or aroused, you can do that all by yourself. And if you do have a partner, some routine sex doesn’t mean that you should be running out the exit door just yet either.

There are so many ways in which you can improve your sex life, even subtly, that you should know these routine days won’t last forever. If you’ve found that your sex life needs a little spicing, then pass the chili pepper because we’ve got you right here.

Lingerie 
Lingerie is a simple way in which you can boost your own confidence and totally turn on your partner at the same time. If you’re a female-bodied person, then there are tons of options that you have at your disposal. You can even buy online if you’re not yet comfortable going to a lingerie store. But it is important to note that employees at a lingerie store will be more than happy to size your chest and help you find the best and most flattering look for you.

Sex Toys
Arguably one of the easiest and most exciting ways to give your sex life a boost is with sex toys. Not only are there sex toys that you can use for your own solo play, but also toys that are built especially for the use of couples in the bedroom. Depending on what you like, you can ease into sex toy play with small vibrators and even the odd furry handcuffs to try out restraints. There is even edible underwear on the market that could be a sensual addition to your private time. Give you and your partner a gift!

Roleplay 
Roleplay isn’t for everyone, but it could be! There are simple ways in which you can experiment with roleplay, but inside and outside the bedroom. Many couples use roleplay as a tactic that adds excitement and mystery to an encounter with a partner that they already know well. Think about it this way: roleplay allows for you and your partner to take on different personas, and it can really add the fantasy that’s associated with sex. Trying on someone new (even if that new person is just your partner with a few embellishments) is a way to keep the spark alive.

Masturbation 
Everybody masturbates, and there shouldn’t be a stigma around it (in our opinion). A great way to figure out what you like with a partner lies in finding what you like on your own time first. When you masturbate, you know what gets you off. Try to implement that with your partner. Don’t be afraid to communicate!