Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Lekan and Kehinde Share Their Love Story and Engagement Photos

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RML in collaboration with FotosbyFola brings you the engagement photos and love story of Lekan and Kehinde in Atlanta. They met during a school program at their college and moved to Facebook before their relationship led to love.

RML wishes the couple the very best as they prepare for their marriage later this year. Lekan shares how they met;

Kehinde and I met at Emory when we were both in the MPH program at the Rollins School of Public Health. We met at an annual fall school program, the 2010 edition was termed “The Fall Fling”. Before “fall fling”, we had met each other once in passing at some friend’s event, we didn’t get to talk but I kept asking my friend about the girl that had the greatest smile I had ever seen. At “fall fling”, we danced with each other randomly – so it seemed, and she said her feet hurt because she had been dancing for a while, so we decided to sit for a bit. I asked her if she was on Facebook and we both laughed. Now, we both agree that that was lame, but it worked. I added her on Facebook and we started talking and exchanged numbers in the process. I guess we owe a lot to social media.
























See more photos @ FotosbyFola - Atlanta Photographers

Aswad Ayinde's Daughter, Aziza Moving On After Being Raped and Impregnated By Her Father

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You may have heard about Aswad Ayinde, he is a former video producer for The Fugees, and was some weeks ago sentenced for raping and fathering children off his daughters, starting from before each was even 10 years old. Aswad is being tried separately for each of the five daughters he abused, and has received 90years thus far - 40 and 50 each for two daughters - now in their thirties.

On Depression and Suicide - Shout Out To Tonto Dike For Speaking Out

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It was reported some days ago that Tonto Dike had tried to commit suicide back in June. She was able to get past it with help from professionals, friends and family. She has through her Twitter account recently began to address depression and suicide, and because it may be more common than we know, {see our last Dear Myne post} RML wants to salute Tonto for speaking out and we wish her the best.

Her tweets are below;

Some Reasons Woman Stay With Their Abusive Partners And Why They Should Seek Help

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The most common question asked about domestic violence victims is "Why does she stay?"
The question shows the misunderstanding of the dynamics of domestic violence. It also reveals a tendency to blame the victim. A more appropriate question would be:

Couple Love - Obiora Obiwon and Wife, Nkechi

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Obiora Obiwon, the musician behind the hit Obimuo got married back in 2011 and with his wife welcomed their daughter in Spetember 2012. We featured the couple for our very first marriage avowals [see post] and RML is happy to see that they keep growing in love.

Dear Myne - Should I Tell His Wife That He Cheated With Me?

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I met this young man Diekola while watching football at a local Nigerian restaurant. He asked me for my number and things progressed from there. We have a mutual friend in Nigeria called Emeka, a guy I went to secondary school with. Emeka and I have known each other for more than 14 years. Emeka confirmed that this guy was single and had no attachments. Diekola and I ended up having an intimate relationship and things got physical really quickly.

Mommy Time - Adaeze Igwe Yobo and Son

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Adaeze Igwe is married to Joseph Yobo and they have one son, who she says, loves the camera just as much as his mommy does.

Racial Discrimination Claims Against Paula Deen Thrown Out By Judge

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A federal judge in Georgia has thrown out race discrimination claims by a former manager at one one of Paula Deen's restaurants. Last year, Lisa Jackson sued Paula Deen and her brother, Bubba Hiers, saying she was subjected to sexual harassment and racist attitudes during the five years she worked at their restaurant, Uncle Bubba's Seafood and Oyster House in Savannah.

October 1 Movie - The New Movie By Kunle Afolayan

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October 1 is an upcoming movie and is directed by Kunle Afolayan. The film began pre-production months ago, but they just concluded auditions and started shooting at the end of last month. RML has been able to get some details about those starring in the movie, and some behind the scene pictures.

Monday, August 12, 2013

Oprah or the Handbag Sales Woman - Who Decides What is Racism?

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#solidarityisforwhitewomen is currently trending on Twitter. I have no idea if the hashtag has anything to do with the Oprah case but it sure got me thinking. Who decides what racism is? Is it the person claiming to have been discriminated aganst, or the person accused of being racist?