“Missionary” is the Only Allowed Sexual Act For Married Couples – Nigerian Pastor in the UK

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A UK-based Nigerian pastor, Pastor Olugbenga Oladejo has warned married couples against unholy sexual acts. In a sermon delivered via a series of videos, The head pastor of Complete in Christ Church (CICC), claimed he saw people being punished in hell for their sexual sin. The pastor quoted Bible scriptures to support his views. The videos were published in 2014,  but went viral recently.

One of the videos warns in the description about, Christian Couples who ended up in Hell for defiling their beds because of STRANGE AND UNHOLY SEXUAL PRACTISES. Some of these immoral and unholy sexual acts include oral sex, masturbation, acts of bondage and positions like ‘doggy’ and ‘cowgirl’. Watch the videos and read the transcript of the relevant parts below...

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The Eternal Destinations Blog explained the videos thus;

“The Lord told Pastor Oladejo that His children are confused, so they must be warned about these sins that are taking them to hell, so they will not perish.  He visually showed him these people’s sins on the “judgment screen” and audibly warned against married couples masturbating on their beds, looking at pornography, oral sex, trying different styles of sexual intercourse to “spice it up,” such as “doggie style” penetration from behind, and various positions, including the wife on top (e.g., so-called “rocking horse,” “cowboy,” or “cowgirl” positions), and hanging your wife (a type of domination and bondage position, involving tying her down, intended to simulate rape). He said the only position that is holy in God’s sight is the face-to-face position with the husband on top.”

On Oral Sex;

...in pastor Oladejo's video Warning to Married Couples Who Practice Oral Sex, he stated that the Lord told him to say, “Men are my image and men are my glory! Men are the glory of God. And every time God is looking at you, He wants you to continue to promote more of His glory. If you now change the glory of God into something that is corruptible, into lust, into immorality, the Lord said you will not make it into heaven.” The Lord said, “If you are doing oral sex, you are not coming to heaven.” And the same goes for other immoral acts you do on your bed. Do not do these things. It is evil before the Lord.

On Doggy;

Men “exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like a mortal human being and birds and animals and reptiles.” (Rom 1:23).
Pastor Oladejo said the Lord told him he should tell you that if you change the glory of God to look like corruptible man or to look like birds, or four-footed beasts, you are not going to come to heaven. You are changing the glory of God into dogs, goats, cows, animals, and into creeping things. You are committing immorality. It's a great sin. It doesn't matter if you are a pastor, bishop, or archbishop. You are not going to make it. Do not change the glory of God into anything on your matrimonial bed or you are not going to heaven.

On woman on top;

...the Word teaches us that the husband is the head of the wife. "For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior." (Eph 5:23; cf. 1 Cor 11:3). He is supposed to love his wife as Christ loved the Church, not lust after her. He is supposed to take the lead in the relationship, including in the marital bed. His wife is not supposed to be the aggressor or the one taking the lead. She is the responder to his love.

On Missionary;

It is well known what the “missionary position” is and why it is called that, for the reason this pastor explained.  Missionaries of old who taught their converts about true holiness would teach them that in the marriage bed, face to face with the husband on top is the only position that God has sanctioned. That is a landmarker or boundary stone that was laid by people before this evil generation was born that you and I who live today are a part of.  That was a boundary stone.  We have moved that stone, so we could try new things to fulfill our lusts.”