1. Say “I love you” often tohimher.
2. Tellhimher often that you are happy to marryhimher.
3. Cookhisher food promptly.
4. Listen tohimher whenheshe talks.
5.PrayTalk withhimher often.
6. Sit onhisher lap when you are alone, and also in public.
7. Tellhimherheshe ishandsome, brilliant and wealthyeverything to you.
8. Occasionally, takehisher food tohimher in the bedroom beforeheshe gets up especially on weekends.
9. Sit down withhimher asheshe watchesfootballher favorite show or any other programme on TV.
10. Learn some things abouthisher job and discuss these withhimher.
11. Scrubhisher back forhimher in the bathroom as you take your bath together.
12. Write a love letter and post it tohimher in the office.
13. Callhimher on phone just to say, “I love you”.
14. Givehimher gifts often.
15. Tellhimher that the best thing that ever happened to youafter your salvationishimher.
16. Ask forhisher opinion often and follow it. This will boosthisher ego.
17. Sit down withhimher in the living room and place your head onhisher lap when alone, and also when people are there.
18. If your children do anything good, tell them they took after theirfathermother.
19. Take the first move in bed. Tellhimher gently “I want your touch, my love,” Don’t beashameddemanding.HeShe is yourhusbandwife, not a slave.
20. Write love poems forhimher and read it tohimher asheshe is relaxing
21. Welcome him home with a hug.
22. Ask for forgiveness when you offend him.
23. Never disagree with him publicly.
24. Laugh to his jokes even though you have heard them so many times. It shows him you love him.
25. Read the Bible to his hearing.
26. Never disagree with him when he disciplines the children.
27. Always allow him to teach you and ask questions.
28. Hang his picture in your office and in the room.
29. When he is not driving and you are travelling together, place your head on his chest or lap and sleep off.
30. Love his mother and other relations.
31. Never raise your voice when talking to him.
32. Whisper in his ears when he is in the crowd and tell him “I love you”, “you are handsome”, “you look like a king”.
42. Ask him what do you want me to do better in my cooking?
43. Write and paste a romantic message for him in the bedroom.
44. Help him to massage his body; spend time on the back, thigh, tummy, chest, face, buttocks, leg, etc.
45. Send gifts to his mother often
46. Give him the needed attention
47. Prepare his favourite meal for him
48. Dress well and walk smartly
49. Help him as he dresses out for an outing
50. Appreciate him at the end of the month in company of the children for taking care of you throughout the month.
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
How to Express Love to your Wife
Sometime ago on Facebook, someone shared on how express love to your husband. This was shared in the Just Us Girls group by a man so I understand he's talking to his audience. So, I'm closing my eyes to the sexism in the list, that's a post for another day. But I feel there's a lacuna in that hardly any relationship expert advises the men, so this is my own version of how to express love to your wife. Enjoy the rest of the list after the break. More love to us all...
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Woo....thanks Myne for Sharing these wonderful tips. I have learnt a lot.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure the original was written by a man. LOL *No comments*
ReplyDeleteBeautiful tips myne
ReplyDeletewow, I love the don't be demanding aspect.Lol, thanks for sharing very refreshing.
ReplyDeleteLMAO...oh yeah?! Esokay!
ReplyDeletelol@ Cook her food "promptly" and sit on her laps.....many a man will definitely break their wives laps if the sat on it for a stretch:)
ReplyDeleteI def penned some tips down. Tx for sharing
nice one i am closing my eyes to the sexism too! like women are subordinate or sth
ReplyDeleteLike the gender change. Women are constantly taught how to take care of their SO's and home, it would be nice to see these lists geared at the menfolk too.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing.
Exactly Lara, lol...
ReplyDelete@Koinonia, we are assuming that most women won't break their husband's knees, abi? You'll be surprised...
Thank you all for reading.
Love how the gender was changed! Fab, Myne.
ReplyDeleteSit on her lap?????? Omg, loooollllll.
ReplyDeleteShe got no ego, she's not the man.
Thanks for sharing and making me laff
nice tips actually
ReplyDeleteFunny am part of the stats...lovely romantic post, so cutie
ReplyDeletel read the bible to hubby this morning and he loved it.lol
ReplyDeleteThat's so sweet Destiny. More love to you guys.
ReplyDeleteLOL @ the sexism in it all. But I love these, that's nice! Thanks for sharing Myne :)
ReplyDeletelol @ Myne
ReplyDelete50 things to do!? Makes for very good read but let me very real here - can any one husband (or wife) do half of all these? i mean, seriously. any one that can actually do 30 of the 50 listed should have 'saint' put in front of his/her name!
ReplyDeletelets keep trying sha
Interesting read
ReplyDeleteWhen it is boyfriend not husband...how far can one go? just wondering.
ReplyDelete#6 and #17? i cough.
Sweet list shaa
ReplyDeletelol.ok, dis is a long list o but i agree mostly. if i'm doing, he berra be doing too o
ReplyDeletelike the list esp with the "her" in it..
ReplyDeletebut why does 21- 50 not have "her" o lol
@Buzzer! Let's keep trying o, lol...
ReplyDelete@Ginger, what is the difference?
@Aloted, fill in the blanks. My hand was paining me. :)
:-)) We have taken note oo. Please reciprocate!
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ReplyDelete@myne hehehe i guessed as much..I can imagine you saying "him o, her o all join!" well something along those lines :D
ReplyDeleteI once got this email, read the first two or three line and promptly dropped it in trash. you the bigger "man" Myne, I just couldn't get passed that chauvinism.
ReplyDeleteAwesome tips. Thanks for sharing them, Myne.
ReplyDeleteThank you all for reading.
ReplyDelete@Aloted, lol...
@Wendy, some of it stuck in my craw too, but there are some good ones.
seriously though...
ReplyDelete"i want your touch my love"
is that for real? lol i need to know.. that is cringing for me sha. lol okay i shut up.
thanks for these.
lol...this is a must read for guys...I love numbers 8 and 19.
ReplyDeleteKeep up the god work @ Myne.