So I was reading Bombchell.com the other day and she had some pictures from the Arise Fashion Week in Lagos on her blog. She ran into the model from Rihanna's music video, We found Love, and she was describing how she was mesmerized by the guy's eyes. That got me thinking about what I notice first when I meet a guy, and generally what I've had friends and other ladies say they notice about guys. I also get drawn to eyes, and I can see how this guy's eyes would be a hit with the ladies.
Other things I notice about a guy would include his facial looks. How do the features of his face set on their own and all together. Some noses are noble, some just too large. Same with lips and ears.
Then you consider the physical build. Is the guy tall, average height, or vertically challenged? Does he look like he keeps fit, how wide are his shoulders? Now I don't want some muscle-bound akpu-obi body-builder, but some nice biceps don't hurt. What about the waist, some nice abs, or a one-pack?
Finally, I can't forget what he's wearing. In that arena, this guys fails the mark for me. Sagging pants? No way!
Generally though, I prefer guys whose clothes are neat and well put together. I don't do designer labels so those go above my head. But whatever he's wearing should look good on him.
What about you ladies out there?
HMMMN, the guys eyes are something actually. eyes can definitely be an appealing factor. hair too, i have a thing for hair, taller than me, not particular about super-light skinned guys. sagging pants is a no no, i like a man well put together, if he is into fashion its a plus. his body should be well toned, no flabby tummy, great back muscles.
ReplyDeletejust a few things i'd like.
on first meet it'd be eyes, diction, hair, height, any peeping biceps, neat clothes :D
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height, bone structure
ReplyDeleteI'm fairly tall for a woman so I tend to notice height first...check....
ReplyDeletecomplexion and facial features (including smile, lips and teeth) second....check check...
and what he's wearing....checkmate :-)
Hmmmmmm
ReplyDeletehmmm bro,taking pointers..
DeleteI'm coming to you guys soon. :)
DeleteI notice eyebrows,teeth and diction.
ReplyDeletehis clothes and how put together he is, i love guys that can work a look
ReplyDeletefirst thing for me : teeth!!! every other thing comes in a weird order!
ReplyDeletethe lips i always notice the lips first the fuller they are the more kissable they are:) and then eyes........i like chocolate coloured to dark skinned guys the lighter ones do not really do it for me unless maybe he is mixed race they have a different look but i love my coffee black anyday!!!
ReplyDeleteI have a thing for teeth too... Important!! Everyother thing is secondary!
ReplyDeleteThe way he talks and the way he walks tells me alot about him...then his eyes and lips
ReplyDeleteWeird weird weird. Hands!!Hands. And not just guys, everyone I meet, my eyes go to their hands and feet...weird. And cos most times you cant see the feet, my eyes are trained on the hands...every advert, movies, photos, everywhere I can possibly have a look at people hands...I can tell you what advert suck because they overlooked some hand/nail detail...weird!
ReplyDeleteEyes, Lips/Teeth and then his foot wear...these things kinda tell me some things about the person i'm meeting whether lady or guy
ReplyDeletebody build.
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You see how ladies would be drawn to his eyes? I find them quite scary actually.
ReplyDelete"Now I don't want some muscle-bound akpu-obi body-builder" HAHAHA...I needed a laff and that cracked me up for real.
I think I like lips and legs and my hubby has got good pairs...lol.
I notice nose, height and shoes they say a lot about a man's sense of style. lol
ReplyDeleteNo one can choose a blog post title like you. Your titles alone are ridiculously magnetic.
ReplyDeleteNow I'm cheesing all over, thanks.
DeleteMy nose are keen, you gotta smell good. Then the eyes. Then the mouth shape/diction
ReplyDeleteMy nose is not that sharp, but yeah, that is important to me too.
DeleteMe!! height first, it is very important
ReplyDeleteNext finger nails, it better look neat.
I'm not crazy about biceps and all that but boy shouldn't have guts abi pot belly, not cute
Then the rest can follow.
Eyeeeees......I love eyes (eyes that seem to laugh, sexy laughing eyes...if I meet a guy with george clooneys eyes....hmmm stick a fork in me am done!) Then lips hate huge ass lips (onu kanda/kpomo) then the body. Love tall guys nice abs dnt love gorilla gunz like myne I want decent biceps nothing steroid-y lol. Ok fashion sense (dnt be houseboy looking lyk u dnt care @ all) teeth. Uhm sometimes I look @ butts too. Nice asses like a firm butt....not flat and definitel not huge ukwu or kimkardashians ass lol just a yummy tight ass. But this isn't a requirement ....just a bonus lol ;). Hi myne!
ReplyDeleteHI FSR, been a while. Like your specs!
DeleteFor me, dentition, physique, eyes and smell, he must smell good. All others follow....
ReplyDeleteI am 5'9 so height is very important. VERY lol.
ReplyDeletegirls are really cracking me up lmao
ReplyDeletehmmmm!
ReplyDeleteThank God I'm not the only one with a thing for teeth. And shoulders. And hair (some facial hair is a plus). And butts (like 2 nights ago, I had this dream about this guy's butt... sigh). I'm not too crazy about very muscle-y types, sha. Puts me off. And dude has to dress like a responsible person, can't be dating WizKid.
ReplyDeleteOkay!
ReplyDeleteFor me,I love the eyes,the beautiful smile,toned muscle,beautiful hands n nails,good diction.he has to be neat(overall look)
ReplyDeleteThis man pic is so cool..
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Height and diction.....those 2 are absolute must-haves. Then add some broad shoulders, flat, well-toned abs α̲̅πϑ pecs.....sigh!
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The first thing I notice in a man is his overall appearance. I like a man who dresses smartly. Did I tell you I love men in suits? lol
ReplyDeleteAnd of course, he's got to be tall. :)
hmmm....girlzzzz na wah oooo. for me, good height, goodlooking, good diction & very neat
ReplyDeleteThose eyes and those lips. Oh boy. He must be taller than me, I have to feel petite next to him even with my voluptuousness so no tiny or skinny. I like form flesh and darker skin. In summary just tall dark and handsome.
ReplyDeleteWhat catches my eye in a guy... hmmmmmm(this one na big one ohh).
ReplyDeleteFace wise: lips(man i am sucker for lips mehn fine thin average lips with a dash of pink and am in dream land ohh.
Ears: am sorry this is very important to me (average or huge ears, myself my ears are extraordinary lol).
Hair: good hair cut as in................. that gets to me ohh.
Teeth: abeg this is so serious ohhh... fine colgate smile gets to me ohh/clean breath...
Fingers: well looked after fingers and neat nails....
Neat facial hair... does it well for me..
Clean shave, juicy breath, nice body colone and strong bicebs... Am done..
How he walks: as in I cant stand any awkward walking steps mehn..lool. am talking about the guy walk trying to be one big boy sha...
Finally, intellect is important too me ohh.... table manners and character are all part of the package....
But most importantly.....a nice smile does it well for me, firm handshake and gentlemanliness(TICKS IN MY BOOKS)...
apply in next life.
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LMAO.
I forgot to add firm cute butt, (i love tapping my dude bum ohh(covers face). Broad sweet chest and nice mustache too... ok. I will stop NOW..
ReplyDeleteSee u what u are doing Myne. am in dream land. God have mercy.. (renew mind ohh).
{like for the butt}
Delete#1 Good looks and confident
ReplyDelete#2 But if he fails the commitment to God test the first doesn't matter.
If you notice, I said commitment to God, you can be committed to church
and yet not committed to God.
#3 Good character, if you fail the 3rd one the first two don't matter
#4 A vision, if you fail the first three, the fourth one doesn't matter.
for some reason when i meet a guy, the first thing i look at is his feet. cant explain why but i just go there first..whats on his feet? if slippers, how's his feet in them. if shoe, how does the shoe look..weird, maybe cos i'm not a fan of mine much.. :)
ReplyDeletethen his butt...is it grabable...hahaha..the rest can follow :D
Tessa! It's like you took the words right out of my mind! Okay, since you've said all that matters to me, let me now do the physical details. :)
ReplyDelete1. First thing I see in a guy is: would I be comfy kissing you? So the lips matter.
2. Then it's the face. Is it welcoming? E fine? You got bone structure? Smiles are a huge plus for me.
3. Next, if the guy happens to sit beside me, biko dude, I gats to catch a whiff of your expensive, classy smelling after-shave or perfume. Not the acoholic cheap stuff that they sell everywhere! Capsice? :D Thanks.
4. Height. I like to rock 'em heels, but I don't wanna be taller than my hubby while doing that.
5. Biceps. But not the Johnny Bravo type. I just want some solid stuff that I can hold on to in the midst of mad passionate kissing. (Pls dear readers I'm still born-again o...biko Myne what are you doing to me? :D) And since I'm working on my invisibly big tummy, hubby gats to have six-pack! That will be my motivation to work on my abs! *cheeky laff*
6. I really don't dig an abundance of body hair, esp. chest hair, but I wouldn't mind it on the head! So that I can see the great haircut! :)
7. Dear readers, I know this may sound corny, but you know when a guy folds his shirtsleeves just below his elbow...and I see that part of his 'strong' arm, then at the end of that is a beautiful wristwatch...hmm! Sexy! Don't ask me why... :)
8. Nice butt, yeah! But if e flat, no worry if you have the above-mentioned qualities!
9. Great dress sense and grooming. Absolutely. Thank you.
10. Make I kuku complete am to ten :)...This one is not physical, but it's sooo impt to me, I just gotta add it: he should know how to give a great massage. Like almost professionally!
Now Iyaf finish. Thanks Myne for this post, and for such a great blog. Guys, ya reading this? :D
The way he talks and the way he smells. Cheap perfume is a no-no. Sagging pants and skinny jeans? I won't even talk to you.
ReplyDeleteOya na, na 2start 2dey work on myself be dat o....
ReplyDeleteSo ladies look @guy's butt too?! Hmmmm nice.
I'm nt a very physical type.do'nt get me wrong,i am beautiful-even if i say so myself,so,handsome,tall and hard will do it.no softie,please!and,i like a guy that's got a way with words.so,speak on broda!
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