How Singles Can Have a Fulfilled Sex Life

More often than not, being single means more time at your disposal to work on yourself and reevaluate your options. You have the freedom to explore, learn some new things and meet different people. This, however, does not mean that being in a relationship is a trap. It is a fact that we are sexual beings, by all means, with sexual needs, and sometimes fantasies. It is therefore hard to extract sexuality from within us.

Making Time to Date as a Single Parent

Being a single mom or dad is tough. In the beginning, you spend a lot of time adjusting to your new situation. Finding ways to do things for yourself, helping your children cope with the change and building a different relationship with your co-parent if they are still around. If you are working, you also have to find ways to fit your schedule around your children and their needs, so things can be stressful. Then, eventually, you settle into a routine. You and your children become a little team, you have your ways of doing things, and you work well together. You are a unit.

Dating For Disabled: 5 Biggest Misconceptions We Hear Almost Every Day

Back in the day, dating was much simpler and easier. Today, the case is completely different. Most people tend to overthink the obvious things and that makes it harder for them to enjoy their love life. Single people simply can't ignore the myths they hear about other dating niches and this can prevent them from having a fulfilling romantic life. Well, dating for disabled is not an exception. This particular part of the dating realm is riddled with unfair misconceptions and we're about to debunk the 5 biggest myths these people are dealing with on a daily basis.

Some Single Nigerian Women Explain Why They Date Married Men

It's no secret that many young and single Nigerian ladies indeed think it is better to date a married man than single men who are not yet ready for marriage. In fact, most Nigerian ladies have, at one point or another, dated married men. Some even maintain double relationships where they date a married man and keep their younger single men too.

A study by P.M.NEWS has revealed why these ladies feel more comfortable dating married men than bachelors. While many disclosed that they are dating married men because of money, some said they engage in such relationships because of the maturity and experience of the men who already have wives at home.

Viral Picture - Pastor Kisses Naked Butts Of Female Members To Pray For Husbands?

The picture below was shared on a Nigerian blog yesterday under the title, "To get husbands, Pastor Undresses And Kisses Female Church Members Asses At Beach" but I simply cannot believe this can be true!

Several of my friends just shared it on Facebook with the following explanation that the pastor of a church took his single female members to the beach for serious prayers. While there he told them that for them to find husbands, they needed to undress and he would kiss their behinds. They agreed because they were desperate. Now, like I said, I seriously doubt this story!

Marriage And The Unnecessary Pressure From Society, Family and So-called Friends

It seems marriage and those who remain single are always in the headlines. Today, two ladies I love are discussing it, and it seems the pressure remains as hard as ever.

Thelma asks of single ladies, "What's your first reaction when you hear someone (you know) just got engaged?" And for married ladies, she wants to know, "do you sometimes feel sorry for your single friends?"

Toke in her vlog rants about the unnecessary pressure from the society we live in, and counsels single ladies to learn how to rise above the pressure to settle for anything because society won't let them be.

Watch Toke's video and let's discuss below...

5 Reasons Many Christian Women Remain Single - Should You Settle?

This interesting article about why many Christain women remain single, talks about 60 years old Sarah - never been married - with very high standards. At a Christian singles conference, Sarah was trying to comfort another single woman in her thirties who was tired of being lonely and was on the verge of ‘settling’.

In encouraging the younger woman to stay strong and wait for her Mr. Right, Sarah spoke about the men who had been her potential suitors and why she had turned them all down. As she spoke, it became clear to those listening that Sarah's standards and behavior were to blame for her being single at 60.

Basically, Sarah was expecting too much from a mere human being, and some of the men she called "counterfeit", and whom she did not settle for, could have been her Mr. Right long time ago.

Below is listed some of the things that may have kept Sarah and other Christian women like her single. Read and let us know if this talks to what you believe too about single Christian women.

15 Reasons To Give That Older Man A Chance At Your Love

A mature man is more than just a robust bank balance. He’ll be empathetic, wise and secure in himself – at least in theory. He might have a few grey hairs, but they’ll just lend him an air of Clooney-like sophistication. If you’re tired of dating men who bring out your mothering side, here are our reasons to try someone a little more mature.

5 Signs of Desperation Dating Singles Should Avoid

It is great to be keen and enthusiastic about finding a new partner. It is also good to be focussed and committed, making time to respond to matches, going on lots of dates and blocking out time in your weekly schedule to meet new people and attend social gatherings. However, there is a point where keen starts to look more like desperate; here are five of the warning signs to stop you from slipping into that category.

Single and Lonely? 4 People To Avoid Temporary Hookups With

Most of us have been single at one point or the other, and more importantly, we have felt that loneliness that makes being single that much harder. No matter how beautiful one is, loneliness does not discriminate, especially when all around you all you seem to see are couples in love and weddings every weekend. Being single and knowing you're at the point where you want someone to share your life with is nothing to be ashamed of.

4 Reasons to Celebrate Being Single

Justin Schamotta

In the rush to meet that perfect someone it’s easy to forget just how great it is being single. As a lone rider you get to do what you want, when you want and with whomever you want.

[Please Advice] Do You Ever Worry About Meeting The Right Person For You?

Dear Myne. I am going to be 36 later this year and still single and I'm beginning to get worried. Don't get me wrong, I am meeting lots of people, but no one I really want to date. The guys I like already have girlfriends or they are just not interested in me. The ones who pay me attention are the ones I know are so wrong for me.

To All The Single Ladies, Nothing Do You - Open Letter From Charlie Boy

Charly Boy may be a controversial artiste because he likes to push the envelope with his appearance and performances, but he's also a loving husband and family man - a father and grandfather. In this open letter inspired by a discussion he had with one of his daughters, Charly Boy, who has been married for over 35 years, discusses the changing state of marriage in Nigeria today, and his advice to single ladies.

For Those Who Are Single This Valentine

The stores are decorated in candy hearts, flowers and bears. Every TV or radio commercial reminds you that it’s time to remember your sweetheart on this special day for lovers. Your feelings range from sadness, to revulsion to anger. What’s a single person to do?

The following suggestions are designed to both answer that question and to help you have a good day after all, while working to make it your last solo one.

Celebrate the day by planning an activity that is meaningful and enjoyable to you:

- Go to a day spa for “the works”
- Plan an intimate dinner for 3 or 4
- Go ice-skating or to the movies with a fun friend
- Go out to dinner and a movie with a group of other singles
- Focus on what you enjoy and make a conscious decision about how to mark the day
- Un-Valentine's Day parties are very popular and can be a lot of silly fun. You can attend one or throw one of your own.

Dear Myne - I am Celibate, How do I find True Love?

Hi Myne, I am one of your readers. I am in my early 30s and still a virgin yes, you read me right and i live and work in 9ja. I am pretty and blessed with youthful looks and most people never believe i am older than 26. Now the issue is, it has been a bit challenging for me to have a proper relationship cos most of the guys i meet want sex.

IK Osakioduwa's #TipsTo GettingAMan - Really?

IK Osakioduwa is a radio show host at Rhythm 93.7 and he is married with two children. He tweeted yesterday that he was vexing on his show, trying to help ladies find guys. Well, he came up with numbered tweets with the hashtag #IksTipsToGettingAMan on Twitter. I saw some discussion around the tips on my timeline and decided to go to his profile and check out all the tips.

Does Marriage Confer Special Relationship Wisdom?

When I tell people that I write romance novels or that I blog mostly about issues in relationships, the next question from some of them is whether I'm married and for how long. I am sometimes tempted to answer in the negative to hear what they will say, but the replies when I answer truthfully gives me a pretty good idea.