A Radio Interview on Love and Relationships in Nigeria with Zoe Chinaka

One of the most interesting conversations on relationships I had while in Lagos was with Zoe Chinaka, a radio personality with Nigeria Info 99.3 FM on her show called The Woman. We got gisting about love, romance, writing, relationships in Nigeria, and more. Lucky for me, we got a video of some of the chat, enjoy...

[Advice Corner] I'm Married To a 37 Year Old Virgin and Sex is Frustrating For Both of Us

Please somebody help. I just got married to a virgin who is 37. I am 47. We tried having sex but with some difficulties. We made several attempts, but i could not penetrate or get through. In the process, frustrations set in. We had doses of romances and foreplay which we enjoyed though but that is not the real thing.

On Tobore Ovuorie and The Alleged Expose of a Human Trafficking Syndicate

I am one of those who was filled with doubt after I read the report on Premuim Times about their investigative reporter, Tobore Ovuorie. Her account of spending 4 months undercover after infiltrating a human trafficking syndicate operating between Abuja and Lagos tallied with a lot of what we've all heard, watched on TV or at the movie, and it bothered me that for such a high profile "expose", there was no shred of evidence.

Family Time - AY And Mabel Makun Celebrate Daughter's Birthday

Comedian AY and his wife Mabel Makun celebrated their daughter, Michelle's birthday as she clocked six years old today. The birthday was marked at the little girl's school wwith a pink princess cake and with her parents as well as classmates and teachers.

Maternity Style - Matse Uwatse Looking Pretty in Pink

Matse Uwatse who is expecting her baby in a few more months shared this picture of herself wearing this embroidered Indian Silk tunic on Instagram. Lovely!

Pictures From the Meet Chat Buy Naija Books Event

On Saturday 25th of January, I was at the Meet, Chat and Buy Naija Books event organized by Tunde Leye and hosted by Patabah Bookshops, Surulere shopping mall. It almost clashed with the book launch but since it was an opportuntiy for me to meet so many wonderful peeps I know online, I knew I had to go. I missed seeing Phiri of SecretLilies, as well as Florida and Doll, but that's Lagos traffic for you.

The Letter That Got Ali Baba Mad at Pastors Living Large Instead of Funding Enterpreneurs in Church

About a week ago, comedian ALi Baba shared some tweets where he suggested that the pastors of large churches needed to have development funds for their church members instead of using the church tithes and offerings to enrich themselves and stock up on more exotic cars for their garages. He received a lot of blowback from his followers defending the practice. Today on his facebook page, he shared the reason for his tweets. I wish he had named and shamed. Anyway, read his account below...

What Nigerian Women Will Do To Get Married - Fact or Fiction?

By Neeta

"Statistics show that only 3% of single women of marriageable age in Nigeria are undisturbed by their lack of a spouse! The other 97% would do just about anything to become Mrs. Somebody''.

As we read on, we are going to see some rather unorthodox things Nigerian women will do in their quest to bag a husband! Some are bizarre, some are skanky and some are downright sad but if you are willing to try anything and getting a husband is the only activity left on your bucket list, you might want to try a few! (Men beware). In no particular order:

[Advice Corner] My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I'm Too Gentle and Never Argues

Dear myne...I'm a regular follower of your blog and i really learn a lot from it....i sincerely hope you publish my story because i need answers to the questions in my head..

I'm in my early 20's on the verge of completing my degree...i've shyed away from relationships because i felt i was not ready for them. Not until i met my boyfriend who literally swept me off my feet and our few months of dating has been wonderful. By nature, i'm a very quiet and reserved person though,cannot be classified as boring cuz i'm very full of life with a great smile...

Hairy or Smooth Chests on Men, Which Do You Prefer?

Men are usually more hairy than women, and I was recently telling a friend I'm not a big fan of hair on men. Everything in moderation, and if possible the men should shave off the ones they can, like the pits, and pubes. In a recent interview, actor OC Ukeje talked about being nude on film and his experience with being near naked on some promotional material for Hoodrush and the reactions to his hairy legs. He said of people's attitude to the pictures,